by linda » Fri Jul 24, 2009 11:28 am
Cathy--this is such a loaded topic that I hesitate to even login.
But here goes: frankly, Pastor Burleson and former Pres. Carter's opinions carry no more weight than any other Christian's.
I am no longer SBC or even Baptist, but that is more a matter of geography than anything else. The church I belong to does ordain women, but no church is forced to accept a woman as pastor. Each church can decide who to call.
I believe in the priesthood of the believer, so I wouldn't break fellowship with someone for being either egalitarian or complementarian.
I do believe the comps need to understand that it is possible to have a high view of scripture and believe scripture allows women ordination and teaches mutual submission in marriage.
And, conversely, I believe the egals need to understand it is possible to have a high view of scripture and believe it forbids women's ordination and teaches women to be submissive (not subordinate) in marriage.
What I deplore is the demonizing of those who honestly hold a different view. Women who are comps are now often told they are just in denial, or complicit in their own subjegation, or refusing adult status, or other such insults. Men who are comps are called male supremicists in the comment stream on Pastor Burleson's blog. Women who are egals are often seen as buying into the whole radical version of femininity (proabortion, prolesbian, etc), or considered manhaters. Men who are egals are often accused of paying no attention to scripture.
My take is this: let each be fully persuaded in their own mind, and act accordingly. If you are a woman who believes you are called to ordination, seek it. But instead of trying to force every convention or denomination to accept you, serve in one that already does. If you are a church member who believes the scripture forbids women's ordination, vote against it and if necessary vote with your feet.
But let's have an end to comments such as Pastor Burleson's comparing being strongly comp with slavery. The whole idea that unless a woman is just like a man excepting reproduction is far more "male supremacist" than is not ordaining women.
Let's understand that there really can be such a thing a separate but equal roles. Just look at the military: one colonel may be in charge of infantry, and another of artillary, but they are still colonels and still equal.
Once the issue of equallity is dealt with--that is, once we understand it isn't about who is superior and who is inferior, we can honestly tackle the job of searching the scripture to learn who is to do what.
My personal view? I believe there are some general guidelines. I believe within those general guidelines a man is to provide for his wife and children, and a wife is to take care of the home and family. (I know that offends some, but Titus 2:5 is still in my Bible.) Those are GENERAL guidelines, however. In the case of death, disability, job layoff, etc, exceptions must be made. Because of those guidelines, I believe most women have more important things to do than to pastor a church. Some women are single, or widowed, etc, and therefore do not have those general responsibilities. I believe fully God can call whomever He wishes to the ministry, and have lived in places where no man would accept a call to pastor. Should we have called a woman? Or should we have done without? Were we in that pickle because a man said no to God? I don't have the answers.
I do know that not every man who believes he is called to the pastorate should be ordained. Some just don't meet scriptural qualifications. Women will have to get used to the same idea--that just because you believe you are called doesn't necessarily mean you are.
And somehow we have to find a middle ground. Pastor Burleson has suggested on his blog that not ordaining women was a culturally driven construct. I agree. I would also add that the current idea of ordaining women is also a culturally driven construct.
I believe we need to honestly seek the truth as taught in scripture, not the truth we want to find.
And that truth will probably upset men, women, egals, and comps.
Linda