by Mrs Haruo » Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:12 am
I think the main thing Disfellowshipping accomplishes is make Christians (and Baptist churches in particular) look incredibly foolish to the outside world. What a bunch of idiots, constantly quarreling over minor differences in theology when there are people who are hungry, hurting, poorly clothed, lonely, and looking for answers to life's questions. I wasn't brought up in ANY church, and my extended family included free-thinkers, Unitarians, "non-itarians" , daughters of a Methodist minister, --- the main spiritual training I got was in Girl Scouts, where I promised to "Do my duty to God and my Country---- that meant being sincere in my own faith, and respectful to others in thiers-- which meant to me to find out enough about other's beliefs to be able to respect thier customs. I grew up surrounded by people of many races, origins and religious belief (or lack thereof) because my parents, grandparents, and aunts and uncles believed that the more variety you have in your life, the richer it is. If I go into a church and everybody looks the same, thinks the same, I don't last long there. I grew up with four legged sheep out in the pasture. They have warm wooly coats, but not much in the way of brains. I don't have time to waste with two legged sheep. I don't do boring very well. Too much beauty in the world God created to waste time shut up in a stuffy room sleeping thru a sermon, unless its someone with something interesting to say that reaches my heart-- like our pastor who just happens to be theologically well grounded, a fascinating speaker, a heart for service, and a has a gift for getting to the point without beating around the bush. She is a treasure. And those who don't care to listen to her teaching merely because she is a woman are really missing out. Their loss.
Don't despair if your job and your rewards are few, remember that the mighty oak was once a nut like you!