by linda » Wed Sep 03, 2014 11:41 am
I'll add another to the list. Please stop telling those of us who are traditionalists on this issue that that would change if we just got to know, listen to, and understand a gay or lesbian person. Or if one of our kids came out as gay.
UMM, no, we are not that sheltered or in the dark. Many of us have gay children or family members or friends, just as we have straight friends and family that may break sexual rules. And we still hold to those rules, also.
The issue is not that we do not care about the person. It is that we believe the Bible forbids certain actions. Gay or straight.
As to the bullying of gay kids into suicide? I believe it is possible and probably has happened.
I believe it is also possible that when a gay person commits suicide, it may be their own guilty conscience hounding them. I see it as no different than any other sin in that sense. If I know God forbids something I really really really like and want to do, and I also know society has always frowned on the action and seen it as twisted an immoral, I face real choices. I can give up the act, make peace with God, and fit into society. I can rationalize away the Scriptures, try to change society, and see if that works for me. Ah, no, probably will live me guilt ridden and embarrassed. Or I can decide to just give up--aka suicide.
And let's be really careful with the word "bullying." It exists and it is cruel and inhumane, and needs to stop. But simply saying gay behavior or desire is a sin or as the teens around here might say, sick, is not bullying. At very minimum it is expressing an opinion, and last time I checked, we still get to do that. Even if our opinion is right, wrong, kind, mean, or hurts someone else's feelings.
Otherwise, what leg do we stand on when someone decides they are offended and hurt and bullied if we say we believe Jesus is Lord?
Linda