by Sandy » Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:51 pm
My wife and I have been attending our current church for four years, and have been members for three. It is Christian and Missionary Alliance, which is, in many ways very much like a Baptist church, including its theology and doctrine. On the other hand, the churches are elder ruled, and the denominational control, especially related to ownership of facilities, is very tight.
This particular congregation numbers about 80 people, with a good balance of various ages. Our connection hasn't been so much through friendship as it has been through involvement in ministry. I've served as a deacon for two years, and my wife was the VBS director for two years. We went to a home group for a while, in order to be in a place where we could build relationships. Good Bible study, but not much in the way of social activity among the group members. It met for about a year, and then died out.
The preaching is solidly Biblical, doctrinally sound, applicable and relevant. The worship has gone through transition as the worship leaders who were there when we first came left about a year and a half ago, and in the transition, moved back toward a more traditional format from what was a much more contemporary style. That's been one aspect, among several related to elder rule, that, combined with the lack of close relationships, are making us think about finding another church. If we had several friends in the church, it might be different.