This has been going on in 2 places---one I started and one Keith started here---both significant approaches!
I am watching "Meet the Press" and that started the process last Sunday with Biden / Obama coming clear Wednesday / today a more complete panel including Clay Aiken, the new gay country singer from outside Raleigh, NC. Of course, NC had its big Marriage Amendment adopted by 61% of our "brilliant populace so sophisticated!"
You would not ever call this "hiding any cards from anybody in America" right now! Let it all hang out for examination.
I am strongly drawn to Ed's scholar. What we all must remember is that history is written by the winners so it can hide things the losers expressed---like Gnostic Gospels / gay openess in Greek, Roman and Egyptian society when the Hebrews were most definitely about stoning queers.
I think the main issue here is simply
PREJUDICE.
My southern ancestors contended "Negroes had no souls" to stomp out their slave rights and enjoy the prejudice. I think it is being the same with same-sex unions.
Quickly, the Mecklenberg County (Charlotte) School Board is making noises over spousal benefits for anyone other than opposite-sex unions of their workers. The demographics of the vote clearly favored being againt the Marriage Amendment in each area having a major higher educational institution in NC. Outside of that the, whole vote went 61% for the Amendment---this, despite the Attorney General pointing out the NC Constitution only provided for male/female unions already. Billy Graham came out for it and much money was put into big ads from him---likely Republican/Tea Party funded. For sure, lawyers in NC will get rich righting and arguing before the courts of this state!
I like the reasoned take of both this discussion and the other thread. I am anxious to find out more of Ed's scholar who is cited here and in the other blog as well (brought up by me no less when Ed and I usually clash somewhat).
This issue is serious and timely. It definitely gets our attention!