Well, if a woman wanted to be tossed out of teaching Sunday School, I suppose posting a topless photo might do it- unless she is teaching at Fraternity Snoqualmie. (its a nudist colony on a mountainside East of Seattle) Come to think of it, I did get invited there once. I briefly tried an on-line dating service many years ago. One feller sounded interesting, even if the photo of him on his horse was out of focus. We exchanged a few e-mails, then he offered to meet me at Black Angus for dinner. The day before, he asked if tattoos were a turn off. I said it depended on the subject matter and location. Then he mentioned he sometimes went to Fraternity Snoqualmie. I didn't reply on that one. When he took one look at how I am built, he never mentioned nude volleyball again. Lets just say he had a skinny horse that would be very unhappy if I hauled myself up into the saddle. There were no more emails from the out of focus cowboy.
Don't despair if your job and your rewards are few, remember that the mighty oak was once a nut like you!